About 95% or more of the
applications submitted by people looking to adopt a
rescue Pug state that they are only willing to adopt a
young Pug under 5 years of age. When asked why they
are not open to an older dog, the reasons given run
the gamut from: “I’m worried the dog won’t bond
with me”, to “I don’t want to get attached to a
dog who is going to die in a few years.” People who
are unwilling to consider adopting the more mature
Pugs are missing out on one of the greatest blessings
life has to offer: being loved by a senior Pug.
Since they are older, will
they ever bond to me as their new owner?
I have never heard of any rescue
Pug that didn't fall madly in love with their new
family, especially the older Pugs. Even Pugs who have
spent their entire lives in an outdoor cage as a puppy
mill “breeder” very quickly get used to the
concept of being loved and cared for and they learn to
trust their new families.
Malcolm and Rose, two older Pugs
who were found on the streets of Reno, Nevada and
whose tattoos told of their puppy mill pasts, received
a lot of extra love and attention from their PugSavers
foster parents. In a matter of weeks they learned that
sitting on a warm, comfy couch is one of life’s
biggest pleasures. They have bonded with their foster
parents and will also bond just as closely to their
“forever home” when they are eventually adopted.
Eddie, an oldster who was found
sleeping under truck bed liners at a car lot and
survived by drinking dew that collected in the liners,
was fostered by Rebecca Greeno-Rutledge. He had a
mostly-gray face and his coat was as thick as that of
a Husky from years of living outdoors. The vets
estimated him to be twelve to thirteen years old.
Rebecca did not change the name which was given to him
by the people who found him because she was certain
she was only going to be an interim foster family.
Eddie, however, had other ideas. Rebecca immediately
became “Mom” in Eddie’s eyes and he would
constantly gaze at her lovingly. Eddie quickly went
from being a “foster” dog to being permanently
adopted by Rebecca who remains the love of Eddie’s
life. When you talk to Rebecca on the phone you will
likely hear what sounds like purring or cooing sounds
in the background. That isn’t a cat or a baby;
it’s Eddie, contentedly nestled near Rebecca. More
than three years later, after having several growths
and 10 bad teeth removed, Eddie is doing fine health
wise and remains active and loving and will hopefully
have many more years to share with Rebecca.
The joys in Eddie’s life seem
simple to most people. He is excited to sleep in bed
every night and shows his joy by rubbing himself the
entire length of the bed. Even his harness is special
to Eddie: when removed from him he will cry and paw at
it to keep it close to him. What is a symbol of
confinement to some dogs is a sign of love and
belonging to Eddie. Initially, Eddie was scared of the
dark. Rebecca kept a night light on during the night
so he wouldn’t cry. With love and patience, he
overcame this fear and now sleeps peacefully through
the night in Rebecca's bed.
“I was originally going to
purchase a black Lab puppy before Eddie came into my
life.” Rebecca says. “Having had Pug puppies from
the age of 7 or 8 weeks old, compared to Eddie who had
lived easily a decade before coming into my life, I
think I have bonded more to Eddie than to the ones I
had since a puppy. It’s not that a puppy is not
special, but they were loved and cherished since the
day they came to us and they often take being cared
for and loved for granted. Eddie on the other hand has
known a lot of hardship and has been denied basic care
and attention for the majority of this life. To him,
every moment of love and protection is something he
feels compelled to let me know he appreciates, be it
with a loving glance, a sloppy wet kiss, or snuggling
up next to me with his contented purring. I feel like
the lucky one in being open enough to accept an older
Pug into my life. Once he was in my home and my heart
he chose me to be his "forever mom", and it
was clear he wasn’t going anywhere."
Steven and Mala Marcus, who
adopted an older Pug named Otto more than six years
ago, also shares Rebecca’s feelings. While he didn't
intentionally go looking for an older Pug, they were
pleasantly surprised by their "new"
addition. Here is Steve's story:
"My wife Mala and I wanted
another Pug, and we learned, to our surprise, that
there were Pugs that were abandoned, lost and rescued.
When we arrived at the home of the person who was
fostering some of these rescues we were greeted by
about a dozen barking and bouncing Pugs of all sizes
and ages. She mentioned that she had an "old
man" that she had just received. He was in a
crate because he'd just come from the pound and was
suffering from kennel cough. We already had two female
Pugs, so we were excited about the prospect of getting
a male. Mala and I took one look inside the crate and
knew that this was "our boy". Here was this
old Pug (the vets estimated him to be at least 9 or 10
years old) with a massive head and a white, wizened
face with big sad eyes and a wide smile. He looked at
us beseechingly, as if looking for someone to comfort
him during his final hours."
"Mala and I took him for a
little walk to see how he would behave. The little old
guy was bow-legged and walked at a slow consistent
pace, and reminded me of the old Italian men I'd see
walking arm-in-arm down the streets of Brooklyn when I
was a kid. This endeared him even more to us and we
couldn't wait to welcome him into our lives. "
"On New Years Day 1997,
Otto arrived at his new home. Otto bonded to Mala
straightaway given that she was giving him all the TLC
she could, nursing him back to health. Otto became a
great buddy of mine, too. We put in a lot of couch
time together and I always appreciate his peaceful and
quiet presence. I really sense from Otto just how much
he loves and appreciates his home."
"Now in his fifteenth or
sixteenth year, Otto has always been a favorite with
friends and family. His slow pace and regal bearing
always make him shine in the crowd. Since we adopted
Otto we've brought several other Puggies into our
lives- some old and some young. The latest addition is
a youngster named Jake. He is barely a year old and
bounces off the walls. Just watching him makes me run
out of breath. I can tell that Otto is barking under
his breath and rolling his eyes, but he puts up with
the young whippersnapper and fires an authoritative
bark when the kid gets too close."
"Clearly, Otto will one day
leave us and Jake will be the only male in the pack. I
can only hope that Jake bears his old age with the
same grace and dignity as Otto continues to do."
If Steve and Mala had not been
open to considering an older Pug, they would have
missed these past six years (and hopefully several
more) of love and devotion. By keeping an open mind to
rescuing a Pug of any age, both their lives and Otto's
have been enriched.
Isn't it better to get a
young dog because I want to have them as long as
possible?
We all want to spend as much
time as we can with the people and animals we love,
but getting a younger dog does not guarantee that you
will have it for a long time. Pug Dog Encephalitis (PDE),
which is always fatal, generally strikes before the
age of six. While there is a genetic link, it is
impossible to tell which dogs will develop it and
which will not. Other diseases and problems can also
cut short an animals life. Michael Hamlin and Lee
Rolfe unfortunately had to deal with this reality
firsthand with their Pug Phoebe.
"Our Pug girl Phoebe was
1-1/2 years old when we adopted her, and 6-1/2 when
she died of PDE." Michael says. But the loss of
this middle-aged Pug did not send them running for a
puppy.
" It was about three months
after her passing when we decided we were ready to get
TWO new Pugs." Michael continues to tell the
story of the next Pugs they would welcome into their
home.
" We filled out an
application to adopt from rescue and days later we got
the call that there was a Pug family of three that
needed to be adopted out together, Cassie and Bruno
were the parents and Pee Wee was their son. But this
was not a young Pug family: Bruno was 10, Cassie was 8
and Pee Wee 7. We thought, "Ah! What's one
more?!?"
"We drove to Vacaville,
California on Valentine's Day 1999 to meet Cassie at
her foster home. We fell in love with her immediately!
She was so little and her tail just wouldn't stop
wagging! We then drove to Rocklin to meet PeeWee at
his foster home. PeeWee was a perfect gentleman and
took turns sitting on our laps. He was so soft and
sweet! Then Bruno and his foster family showed up at
the house. Bruno wasn't interested in us AT ALL! He
was excited to see PeeWee again and wobbled around the
yard chasing Pee Wee and sniffing the grass and
plants. Lee was ready to take them all home, but I
wasn't sold on Bruno and I knew that they were a
"package deal". The rescue organization had
us think about the decision to adopt the Pugs
overnight, so we spent Valentine's night at a bad
hotel in Sacramento. We ended up going dancing and
heard a Janet Jackson song that we called
"Phoebe's Song". It's a song about looking
up and seeing a star and knowing that it's a loved one
in heaven looking down. We replaced the word
"baby" with "Phoebe" and it became
the Phoebe Song to us. We had also heard the song on
the way to the Dog Show where we learned about the
rescue organization. When the song played at the dance
club I took it as a sign from Phoebe that we had to
adopt the Pug Family!"
"The next
morning we picked up Bruno and PeeWee from one foster
home and took them to reunite with Cassie and on
February 15, 1999 we officially became the "Pug
Dads" to the "Pug Family"! Looking
back, I can't imagine why I ever had doubts about
Bruno, he is so very special!"
"We weren't really looking
to adopt Pugs who were as old as they were. If Phoebe
was still alive, she'd still be about 6 months younger
than PeeWee, our youngest. Bruno is now 14, Cassie 12,
and Pee Wee 11. We knew we didn't have the time needed
for a puppy, so we knew we wanted adult Pugs. We
immediately clicked with Cassie and PeeWee, and Phoebe
sent us a sign to convince me about Bruno! Their ages
weren't really an issue. What I think is special about
senior Pugs is that they really appreciate the love,
and really give it back. Puppies often focus their
attention on toys (or shoelaces or other things they
shouldn't chew on!). These three senior citizen Pugs
just want to be with us. (except when it's time for
breakfast or dinner, they are still Pugs after all!)
As sad as it is, no Pug is going to live forever and
it's always going to seem like too short of a time
that they are in our lives. But with seniors, it's
such quality time! Relaxing time! Loving time! And as
we found with Phoebe, you never know how long your
baby is going to be around. We lost her way too early,
and we'll hopefully have the three old Pugs with us
longer than we had Phoebe."
"If someone doesn't want to
adopt an older Pug because they think they won't have
as much time with them, they will be missing out on SO
MUCH joy and love! Whether it's only for a year, four
years, or eight years, you will never regret the gift
of love that you give an older rescue Pug."
Search your soul, open your
heart to an “older" Pug, you will never regret
it!
Can you imagine what it must be
like for a dog to be discarded in middle age?
Sometimes it happens because the owner dies, but it is
usually because the owners just decided they didn't
want the dog any longer. These are not "bad"
dogs, just dogs that happened to end up in bad
circumstances.
One such gray-faced "middle
aged" black Pug ended up at Contra Costa Animal
Control several years ago. When the Pug rescue
volunteer when to pick her up from the pound, one of
the employees asked the volunteer "Why do you
want this one, she's old?" We are a society
obsessed by youth and beauty, and this "humane
officer" obviously could not see beyond the white
hair on the chin to the personality within. To not
take her out of the pound would have meant certain
death for her later that day. What became of this Pug?
She is now known as "Marley" and is living
in Idaho. Her "mom" designs and creates
clothing made especially for Pugs and named the
company after her, House of Marley. Each item of
clothing bears her name on the label. Marley can be
seen modeling many of these creations at her website,
www.houseofmarley.com
One of the best "true
stories" I ever heard was about a couple who
adopted an 11 year old Pug. She recently passed away
at the age of 20, nine years after she was adopted!
There are no guarantees in life, for any of us. Look
at any Pug rescue web site and you will likely see
many senior Pugs. These Pugs are routinely passed over
as people wait for a "young" Pug. If you
look at these photos and read these stories and are
moved in any way, please think about opening your
heart and your home to an older Pug. If you make this
choice you will find that not only did you make a
world of difference in the life of the Pug, he or she
will touch your heart in ways you did not think
possible.